ok where do i actually start at. well i guess i can start on saturday june 25th mark decided to surprise me by taking me up to big bear for a one day trip. he worked on his car after he got off of work on friday to make sure that it could make the trip up the mountain.
well, our 2 friends knew where he was taking me too, but i didn't. i have been wanting to see big bear for a very long time, mark grow up there. so on saturday morning he told me that we are going up to big bear for the day. i was so excited.
so we get things together, and start are little trip. well, we should have just turned around when the car started having troubles, it wasn't anything to major at the time. the gas line that mark put on the new fuel filter wouldn't start tight enough. so it was leaking all over the place.
anyway finally mark gets that fixed and he says that we are now going to big bear. well, after that everything was great. but when we started heading up the mountain that's when things started going haywire. the car started loosing it's power, and then the motor started making nosies, but mark was still pushing it to get it up the mountain cause there was no way we could make it down the mountain the way it was doing.
so we finally get up the mountain, we make it to big bear city and then the car just wont go anymore. thank god that mark has a friend up there, so he looks him up and we head over to his house. well, actually mark talks to his friends girlfriend, her name is chris. well, she seemed nice to start with....anyway that will come later. mark doesn't want her to tell larry that he is here. cause they haven't seen each other in 5 years so mark wants to surprise him.
well, larry finally gets home and he is so happy to see mark, and of course mark intrduces me, and larry gives me a big hug. so that was good, mark tells him all that has happend and larry says well, lets go get your car, and you can stay at our house until you can get the car fixed.
the thing is there is no where in big bear to get the car fixed. mark needs a special mechine to turn a crank on the car, and big bear doesn't have one. so we were screwed big time. oh and did i mention that we also owed rent for our apartment before we left. so just everything was getting to us. we stayed at larry's house, or should i say chris's house cause she wants everyone to relize it is her house and not larry's. we stayed there satuday night june 25th - thrusday june 30th, cause basically on wednesday night chris hit us whit you have to get out of our house now.
oh she was really bitchy about it. she said that "i need to talk with you 2",also she said that to eric to that was sitting right next to her. see there was 2 other people staying there also. eric and robin. anyway she started just telling us "you need to make a descion on what we are going to do" (which we have been trying to figure this out the whole time we were there, she knew this) "cause what ever you plan on doing is not going to be in this house." (meaning she thought that we were going to move in or something, she knew that we wanted to find a way back down the mountain so we could get home, or manage to buy a place there in big bear.)
she also said "i need everyone out of this house by tomorrow, hopfully before larry gets home from work." "and i can't stand that there is so many people in this house anymore, and like you said mark you were not going to stop by anyway while you were here." "so i just basically need the both of you out of here so i can get my life back." "you caught us at a very hard time right now, and i just can't take you being here anymore." "also your car can't stay here either, you can park it next door on the vacant property, it will be a while before someone tows it away." "i hope that you both can have a good night sleep tonight, oh and larry is going to be having a bbq for his b-day on the 3rd you are both welcome to come." well, i'm going to be now goodnight."
that is some of what she said, so she just basically gave us half a day to find somewhere else to stay at. which we didn't have the much money on us. so we had to see if we had enough money for a hotel room or something. and she didn't care if the car got towed or not, she just turned into a real bitch, she wanted to blame it on us why she stayed in her room so much all day. it wasn't because of us, it is because she is just plain lazy! and why should she get up, she has a good thing going with robin, robin does all the cleaning and everything in the house so chris don't have to do anything.
and everytime she does get up, she complains about how she can hardly move, and how bad she feels today. just everything, and she also complians about her gaining so much weight, she can't understand why she has. hmmm could it be because she eats all the time and just lays in bed? i'm sorry but she treated us badly, well, not only her but robin did too.
get this, the whole time we were over at their house, we hardly got anything to eat. except on saturday night when chris fixed something to eat and she fixed enough for all of us. well, the rest of the nights robin cooked. and she hardly left anything for me and mark to eat. she would fix eric, chris, larry, and her plate, and she would pile it up. and i saw her out the corner of my eye what she was doing. she would run really fast to chris's room cause where her, eric, and chris were staying at, and there would be a lot of food on their plates.
but when i got and see if i can fix me and mark's plate, there wouldn't hardly be anything there. maybe just a mouth full or 2 for both of us. even on the last night we were there at the house, robin fixed up a huge roast and i'm like good maybe we can finally eat tonight. nope, chris comes in and puts it up before we could have anything. and later on after chris said for us to get out. i looked in the frige to see how much was left, and there was only 1 huge slice left, out of a huge roast that filled up all of the pot.
and if it hadn't been for me watching the roast it would have burned, cause robin and chris went to lay down while the thing was cooking! i was the one putting water in it and all. but anyway me and mark ate nothing that night. we were even more worried now cause where were we going to stay at? mark even mentioned to her that we were probably going to have to live in the car now since we didn't have any other place to go, and all she did was roll her eyes and say well what ever you need to do better get done by tomorrow night. she got up and walked away to her room again.
but we did manage to get a hotel room on thursday, and then mark found a cheap rv camper to buy for 200.00 and we stayed in that friday. and then just decided to just drive the thing down the hill cause that is the only thing we could do. which would be very dangerous, cause the tires are all cracked on it, we were just hoping that none of them would blow on the way down the mountain.
the thing is mark had to leave his car there and are just hoping that it is alright where it is. and the whole time that we were stuck there i was worried about my fish speedy cause he wasn't getting fed, but we did have our dog ginger with us at least we knew she was alright.
gosh all i can say coming down the mountain on those tires was so scary, i'm just glad that we made it. we parked the camper over at where mark works at, and stayed there until monday july 3rd, cause that is the only place we could park it at. we couldn't bring it over to our apartment cause there is no place to put it.
we were also scared that we lost our apartment already cause we were so far behind on the rent payment. mark was even looking for a rv park to stay in, we might still have too. that is if we can't come up with the money we need. we would hate to lose this place.
oh and speedy is doing just fine, he was weak when we got here but i feed up and he pearked right up. also mark went back to work last night cause he had a van he needed to get fixed before today. but the thing is he didn't come home at all, he said that he would be back home. i waited up for him until 1am. no sign and then i kept on waking up to see if he was here. i'm thinking he might have stayed in the camper last night, at least i hope so, i am just worried about him. and he can't call me cause our phone is off, but we still have internet lol.
last night was the hardest time i had sleeping and i have been crying off and on all day cause i have no idea where he is at right now. i thought he would drive his bosses truck back over here but he didn't. he has the keys to it, and he is allowed to drive it.
also big bear was so beautiful, even though we had a very hard time up there, i still love it and want to go back. which we are going to get the chance to cause we have to go get mark's car, and i asked him if we could take sometime to look around before we go home, and he says that he plans too.
so we will see what happens then, we will probably go back up this weekend. wish us luck. i think this time i might leave ginger with mark's dad cause if something happens this time at least we know we can ride a bus back down here. but we will see on that too.
also today mark's dad is going to come get us for a bbq over at his house, so that is going to be real fun. anyway i better go i think i have wrote enough for now. i'm going back to lay down, don't feel like doing much today to tired. i'll write later on, bye for now.